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Believing In

Believing in Boundaries shines light on the importance of boundaries in our lives. Using biblical teaching and personal experience, you will understand the how and why to set boundaries in your own life. Boundaries will enhance and create healthy relationships in your life; making a healthier, happier you.

Need some inspiration to set your own boundaries? Download the first chapter of my book for free to get a personal glimpse of how God helps you develop your boundaries for relationship success.

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Your work on boundaries doesn’t stop once they’re built. As a lifelong advocate for creating boundaries that last, my Believing in Boundaries course gives you the foundation to build happier, healthier relationships inspired by biblical teachings. I'm here to teach you how to build unshakeable boundaries that will last a lifetime.

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Believing In Boundaries

Codependency, toxic relationships, and unhealthy dynamics are day-to-day problems in many lives. You are the person that can change your future with a little guidance. My course will inspire you to confront your relationships head-on to understand how to create effective boundaries and maintain your faith. If you're ready for that journey, I'll hold your hand every step of the way.


Meet Stephanie

Hi! I’m Stephanie Jordan. I have been a hair artist and stylist for 24 years. This career has given me the opportunity to learn many life experiences and to walk along with people through their life journeys.

With my passion for sharing the love of God and life-long experience of building healthy, meaningful boundaries with the people I appreciate the most, the leap from cosmetology to author, speaker, and teacher was the natural next step. As an eager romantic and non-traditional Christian, I want to be a unique voice for God that other modern families need. 

I have been married, divorced, widowed. A large family has given me plenty of real-world challenges and proof for putting my words into action.

I look forward to encouraging, challenging and inspiring you along your journey of life to learn more about God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit and setting healthy boundaries.


StephaNIe Jordan

Author | Speaker | Teacher

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As a public speaker with 2 years of experience helping people find their own paths to happiness in their lives and relationships, I'm available for speaking gigs across the South and Southwest.

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My Mission

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Through my love of God and my passion for what I do, I aim to inspire people of all walks of life to take charge of their relationships, understand the benefits of boundaries and establish their limits for a happier, healthier, and more fulfilled life.

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What's life without a challenge? However difficult it is to set boundaries, I'm here every step of the way, giving you content to ruminate on, to help you make those changes that can make a real difference in your life. We overcome those hurdles together to deliver the best results.

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A little encouragement goes a long way. I'm the biggest cheerleader for anyone putting the work in to set healthy boundaries. Through my passion and God's love, you can achieve anything you set your mind to. I will give you tools to help you achieve results to love God more, set healthy boundaries, and grow a stronger future.


A thought- provoking and soul-affirming read. Jordan draws from her own remarkable life experiences and empowers readers to define boundaries in relationships with the people and culture around them. Although some my cultural views vary from the author’s, I appreciate her passion to preach from her heart to inspire others. I also enjoyed her humor and the powerful scriptures woven throughout the text.


I especially liked the tie end made in reference to God's way and His approval . Knowing that everyone is not going to approve but the Lord will be with us . I've been apart of so much that has been covered in the book but I feel the blessed assurance of God . I will keep the book and refer to different parts of it from time to time in order to help others. 


There is a lot of knowledge packed into a tiny amount of space here. I know a lot of people whose relationships suffer because of their inability to set boundaries. I would highly recommend purchasing this and giving it as a gift to those people as a subtle way to help them gain knowledge. We all need help setting boundaries and this outlines natural borders already set in place that foreshadow how we should also set natural boundaries with others- it's the law of the universe. I applaud her for trying to help others and for being so passionate about it. I've listened to her podcasts as well and would highly recommend those.


I love that this book gets to the heart of the matter. Stephanie uses her stories and Scripture to break down what is actually happening in relationships so the issues can be seen clearly and addressed. Her humor, honesty, and truth-telling make it easier to accept our responsibility to ourselves and to others. Great read!


Reading Stephanie’s book has taught me just how important boundaries are!! With not only those close to me, but in business as well! I have also had the privilege of listening to her speak. She’s knowledgeable, Christ centered and firmly grounded in her beliefs!

Erin Trudo

I have had the great privilege of sitting under the guidance of Stephanie’s words both in public settings and in private conversations. She has a fervency for the word of God and a desire to see people transform their lives and guard their hearts. She is a great teacher, speaker, author, and one spunky hair artist. I am grateful to have Stephanie in my life.

Lindsey Blackwood

When I first met Stephanie she was a wife, a young mother, and a hairdresser. I later discovered a gifted teacher and anointed speaker too. Our church was hosting a ladies' retreat. We were spending the weekend seeking after God. Ladies of all ages were attending, and one of the youngest was Stephanie. Little did I know that Stephanie was our main speaker and teacher leading us on a closer walk with Jesus. I remember walking away from that retreat amazed at the wisdom, knowledge of the Bible, anointing, and spirit-filled way she lead us into God's presence. The life experiences Stephanie has been through in the last 10-plus years, not only brought her closer to the Lord but also made her a better teacher, speaker, and now author.

Patty Moore

Stephanie is a wonderful human being. I have served alongside her and also had the honor of hearing her speak at conferences. I always enjoy her presentation because her passion motivates me. Her enthusiasm gives me hope, and her topics are fun. She is creative, well organized with her delivery, well researched and always presents with integrity, love and truth. Her knowledge of the Bible is vast. She has worked with many diverse communities which gives her connecting points and experience to talk about many things. She includes her audience and always talks about usable ideas. She is a fantastic, unique, intelligent and determined. I’m honored to know her.

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As a public speaker with 2 years of experience helping people find their own paths to happiness in their lives and relationships, I'm available for speaking gigs across the South and Southwest.

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